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  • Contributed by: Daveyone ( 14 articles in 2012 )
Family Law Court discriminates against Men as cargivers: You have always been a voice for those who need it, there are millions of families being torn apart by the Family Law Court System.. PLEASE HELP.

I am a father.

Not a deadbeat, not a coward, not a man that runs away from being a father, or a deserter of my own flesh and blood.

Not a sperm donor or a court appointed ATM, but a Father in the purest form of the word. And while choosy "Moms choose Jif", I sit, at 3:05 am holding the hot hands of a sick 7 year old princess. But that's my job. Because I am a father. I would speak to my daughter while she was in utero. She would respond with little kicks and from the womb. We interacted, and hadn’t even seen each other yet. When you immediately accept that, even before your child takes it’s first breath, you are already a Father - you immediately begin to bond with your child.

The Family Law court system as a whole, and it’s Judges destroy the lives of children and in turn entire families by violating a Father’s right to Due process and equal protection under the law. But we’ve known that for decades. Anyone that thinks or believes that there is Due process for fathers in the Family Law Court system should be placed in a padded room and heavily sedated.

Why is it ok for Fathers to miss their children? Why is it ok for a Father to be sick and wrapped in worry? Why is it permissible for "Non Custodial" parents to start legal proceedings at an immediate disadvantage? Why is there no legislation in place to safeguard Fathers that are being swept in amid the men that make us all look bad?

We are judged before the first hearing. It physically hurts on days I don’t have my daughter with me. "Depression hurts" as the commercial for anti-depressants says right? Ask yourself, what parent wouldn’t be stressed sleepless concerned about their child? Therefore forcing time away from a parent and child would reasonably cause a great deal of stress and worry - to truly say the least.

But the Family Law Court its Judges, are far from reasonable. Now, just imagine that you’re sitting at your desk at work, and two armed Sheriffs approach the receptionist’s desk, then your intercom buzzes, and you are then summoned to the front desk. The Sheriff asks you for your name, and then politely informs you that you have been served with child support papers and that’s just the beginning. Keep in mind that you are the same father that went through the entire pregnancy, CPR classes, ultrasounds, the Birth, ya know, Dad stuff. For the record, ( a sidebar really, ) Any man that has stood side by side, each day and night for nine months with a hormonal, morning noon and night vomiting, habitual mood swinger knows that Fathers don’t exactly have it easy during a nine month pregnancy either.

Weather you are an amazing Father, or a deadbeat looser, Family Law Court will filter your life through Hell all the same. I am a Father. With no criminal record, never been arrested, no history of violence, domestic or other. At what point did I ask to be Non-Custodial? There is nothing "Non-Custodial" about me. I have never needed a court order to care for my Daughter. Since when have I not been a Father? I clinch my fist and grit my teeth while, the very system set in place to protect our families not only fatally fails, but spits in my face and violates my rights.

"There is no system ever devised by mankind that is guaranteed to rip husband and wife or father, mother and child apart so bitterly than our present Family Court System." - Judge Brian Lindsay Retired Supreme Court Judge, New York.

My thanks go to Darby Jay for putting into words just what Family law injustice looks and more over feels like ,when will the media and more over our politicians get the message and act before the next generation is made to suffer and are lost to a loving parent and the social consequences this has on us all! Daveyone


    By:James Darby Sr. from Nv, U.S.A on February 3, 2014 @ 2:33 pm
    For years now I see what this court been doing to my son. I would like to say that you jack ass's don't know my son at all to say that he is a dead beat dad is a DAM LIE. My dad raise me the right way and i did the same with Jaymz. So all of you can go to HELL. Judge Willett you are wrong and i hope you burn in hell for doing this to us.I live in Las Vegas when i get a chance to go to LA I can't see my granddaughter now do that make me a dead beat dad too???????
    By:Jack from QLD, Ozz on February 18, 2012 @ 5:48 pm
    There's only one thing one can say about the Family Court system and that is it's bloody useless!

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