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Who wants to be dictated to by the State on how you support your children what, how and when?
Whilst many views float around arguing for and against child support, most decent fathers and parents would argue the issue is not whether or not they wish to support their children, but rather the often unfair conditions imposed upon them.
Simply, it's an attack on the nature of a father's freedom and how he best wishes to raise and support his children in the many different ways a responsible father can, which are often more effective and benefical to a child than any 'slap-bang' instrument of government and statism can ever be.
For a father going through separation/divorce, experiencing the loss of family and children, horrendous false allegations, litigation, uncertainty of where your children are and how they are doing, often causes ill health, work and life instability in so many ways. Also, the effects from not having a fully functioning and emotionally present Dad in a child's life can be equally, if not more devestating as their development can be hindered considerably.
Then if that isn't bad enough, along comes an assessment from the Child Support Agency (CSA) for an outlandish sum of money based on your capacity to work at the highest rate when you were fit and able and on fire, which is possibly a stark contrast to where your financial position is today, or will be in the future if you are unable to recover from the upheaval of a traumatic separation that's often compared to a fate worse than death.
From 2006 CSA powers in Australia have increased to not only garnish your wages, but directly withdraw from bank accounts any amount they deem appropriate, siezing assets of any sort to pay the often highly questionable and unjust debts. As Fathers are assaulted with such draconian measures, one can only feel a sense of dictatorship giving rise to a totalitarian society not a free Australia causing fathers to unite and fight for their rights and freedom.
As there are many issues surrounding child support and the effects upon fathers, children and families,
Share your opinion and experiences about the pros and cons of child support,
lifting the veil on a most horrid part of family breakup!
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I will make up an email address and I need you all that have been controlled unwillingly, treated unfairly, if you believe that the legislation or law is unjust for your situation, please email me your full story . I plan to compile these stories and take it to my local member of parliament . Remember your ex is not to be blamed but rather the legislation that csa uses against us.
If you want to join me in taking these real life stories to the council, by all means join me. If we can get together and protest outside Parliament House lets do it! I'm sick of being told what to do because of a legislation that looks at your situation one way. Everyone's situation and circumstances are different from the next person but legislation looks at it only one way.
I am serious about this so fathers: let's fight for justice and change.
In my case, my ex partner is crying poor and I hv to pay x amount, I'm struggling too but if yr crying poor how is it that u want my signature to authorise you to take my so called child with you on a holiday to another country. This annoys me greatly! I want change fathers. I can't do it without yr help. I am from Victoria Northern suburbs. plz reply to this if yr willing to share yr story via email to me.
*exercise patience*
Peace!

In is in the act and was pointed out to me by a case worker.
Just like councils and other government agencies the law is written in their favour, to protect them from any legal chellange or negligence.
For eg. My car ran into the pot hole and had over $5000 of damage.
Legislation is written so that because the council was UNAWARE, they were not liable. Once awareness is raised or reported of such a fault it is then their DUTY to the public to fix this hazard.
So basically, before you divorce or split up ring CSA before this happens so you know your rights and can make an informed decision.
If only it worked the other way around, where just because you were UNAWARE of CSA and their debt recovery methods you are not liable.
My advice is...be patient there is light at the end of the tunnel meaning children grow up and are no longer dependent on support.
Sure, it might be on average 10 years of bullshit, but there is an end point and I think more people focus too much on the now, rather than being thankful that's the price to pay to end a toxic relationship, with children.


You need everything in writing asap
Dont worry about the child support payments ( it will bite him on the ass ) if your child goes with his father and you dont know where the x lives dont let the kid go
Family law states that all parties have to have a address to give to the other party at all times
If you are not happy about letting your son go then dont unless its in writing and signed of from a court there is nothing your x can do about it ( this also includes any clothes you give all can be put into writing )
A child being safe is the most important thing



firstly, what you're describing is parenting, people, their personalities, values and expectations, which whilst fascinating are in depth topics.
The difficulties you're experiencing with your ex is probably why you split in the first place. The difference in core values is most likely why you're not compatible, now and before, as frustrating as it is. Did you plan to get pregnant to this man or was it an accident, and who left who and why?
Whilst this to some degree may sound absurd, let me say that nothing is right, wrong, fair or unfair - it's only what you create and perceive it to be. Whilst nobody is perfect, some people are an absolute disgrace and shouldn't be let near a child!!!
What I suggest is you do a pros/cons list of your exes parenting as to the effect it has on the well-being and positive development of your son. As the primary carer you have to comfortable your son's overall well-being is happy and safe. If not, trust your intuition to do whatever it takes to keep your boy safe!

Single women perceive men as "They are their children they should pay" No one argues with that at all. However Aust also has a very low rate of women returning to the work force. I have a 13 yr old sun where once i pay CSA and my ex earns money froma so called pension she is now earning the same wage as me. Give me a break...we all want fairness in this...no guy should not look after his kids. But ladies and i do use that term losely stop the rubbish. Its really quite boring.


The law as it stands now allows for rulings that will affect children.... usually the mothers and rulings that don't usually the fathers.
EG if the mother has been ordered by the courts to give access but doesn't she wont be jailed or penalties applied because it will affect the children.
If a non custodial parent ignores a court order s/he can be jailed for contempt of court
Family law is not real law as it is not equal or just and has no peer reviews I.E scrutiny of judgements by society as a whole as is the case with all other law


Unfortunately the so called 'earnings capacity' is assessed at the time you break-up. Often this is at a time when the man is head down bum up working his arse off earning to support a dependent family and often the lady of the house is in P/t work as yours was and still is.
So this is where the 'clock starts' consider it your 'baseline'. As you allude too its the Wigs (toxic feminist) in the Family Law Court and their debt collectors (CSA) that interpret the F*&d legislation to grind you to a pulp.
Locky - get this! you're only a man and a white man even worse so you are in a difficult situation but there is no sympathy or support for you from 'the system' which feeds off you like a parasite having no respect for the Host. The only general guidance I can offer you is the following:
1) Make yourself a smaller target i.e by reducing your earnings capacity. To do this though you will need psychological assessments GP records for mental illness stress, anxiety, depression (SAD) etc etc.
2) Since you have 8 year of CSA to go seriously consider leaving the country. Especially if you have transferrable skills and go to a non-reciprocating country to live.
I am thinking of offering a 'support service' for guys like you after I make the move overseas.
In the meantime mate. Keep posting to this site and try the local legal aid people in Victoria for guidance. Although the current Cwlth Govt has stripped these agencies of funding recently.
Good luck mate and keep in touch.
Regards
John

Locky from Victora
CSA do have the power to lock bank accounts down BUT they can not take more than 15% thats in the account other wise its classed hard ship grounds on your part ( they did his to my bf and took over 2500 from account )you have to ask beg and fight them to get anything of it back good luck with that
As for the kids you need concent orders lodged in court and then sent to CSA. CSA will go of the orders and will not take any more money from you for any expences eg: school camps
Hope this helps

Me? Divorced, was self-employed, now working full time. Two daughters, 9 & 11. I am assessed on my capacity to earn, which severely disadvantages me yet my ex works part time and believes she has a god-given right to be supported y me. Won't negotiate. Eg; CSA froze my personal bank account last Friday. Took $1,000 which was ear-marked to pay my mortgage and expenses. The ex took the money but then told me that if I wanted my youngest to attend camp in December, I had to pay $150 more! This is the type lunatic I am dealing with. The CSA will not lay a glove on her or hold her to account for not trying to get full time work - of any sort. Furious? Frustrated? Ready to explode? That's me. So, I was to pick up my kids in two hours without a cent to my name. Now that's stress!
Why does the CSA refer to my capacity to earn and not hers? Just because I had a demonstrated capacity AFTER the CSA was engaged, and she had a demonstrated capacity BEFORE the CSA was engaged. That is not justifiable and is fundamentally unfair.Our law-makers are responsible for this legislative tripe! And these are supposed to be among the best minds in the country!
I got more, but is there any way to get through to these pricks?

How do I say... I will not be persuaded to participate or even react to another persons view.
You remind me of myself prob about a year ago wif the indoctrination and doom and gloom talk.
One word...science.
Yes, the simple truths that exist are rarly taught or even believed.
Such as the evolution theory or the psychology of chemical reactions that dictate our very being...
It's not the outside world that dictates who we are, but our own inner person.
Btw...God does exist...in a book and in a brain. See just proved it.
Take care.

As for the masses, the multi generational programming has indoctrinated and distracted people so deep, its no wonder so many remain asleep and dead or is it us, are we the belligerent and naive fools? The good cells in the world's immunity system that gets taken out as the cancer spreads.
I think we have lost our way and forgotten how to love god and our neighbour, reaping only being conquered from the division we have sown.
What are the answers my friends???
Will many more dark days have to come before the crowd leaves the sports stadium, awaking from the entrenched denial they are in? Perhaps we're at the wrong game too Anthony, maybe we should be on an adventure free of responsibility and duty?
How sayeth?

It seems you are hijacking my ideology...
Please stop confusing the masses with your use of the word PROVE and LAW.
Unless you have some experience to share with us.
Then to me you are a fool and only the foolish will believe you.
Keeping them trapped in a loop of anger and denial.
Over come ppls... Adversity is the best achievement anyone can claim in this life.
Ps. Just checking I have dotted my i's and crossed my t's because I'm expecting a reaction to this post.
Thank youđ

First, are you the living or the dead?
As a living, breathing, flesh and free flowing blood soul, is it not wise to get the CSA or any govt institution to prove in law everything they demand from you? Onus probandi.
ie. Is the CSA lawful?
Can they provide hard evidence of the law that gives them power and jurisdiction over you?
Where does this head of power come from?
Is this head of power greater than your power?
Is God not the only power above you, as isn't God the only power that gives and taketh away your breath?
Hence, isn't it correct that no man/woman stands in between you and God?
Hence if yes, is it not true that no one has power over you unless you give your CONSENT?

It's very common practice that someone steps in for the weak and fights on their behalf.
This then creates a weaker society one that can be controlled by government and their agencies.
I believe and it's just my opinion that you should prove emotionally that you are weaker and so the have more sympathy for your case.
One last point...we are led to believe that it's survival of the fitest and our instincts get in the way in terms of fight or flight.
This may be true in the business world, however in the welfare world oppisite world theory applies...sorry it's my idea that you solve problems in an oppisite fashion because conventional methods keep you in the loop.
A quote...it's not meant to make sense.
With this in mind you will know the answer.
It's all psychology and chemical reaction that occur in the body.
Oh, what would I know...im just a mathematician.
And no I have a calculator you do my computer maths.
Focus on logical problem solving and apply oppisite world theory.
Hope that helps.
Would be good to see some positive posts where this forum has helped people...
Just saying



As far as relief with the quantum of child support already paid, the below high court case may provide a remedy insofar as an Order. However, before going to the trouble of getting an Order, first make sure the mother has some assets to assist with the enforcement, else all maybe in vain.
"In the High Court case of Magill v Magill [2006] HCA 51, a claim for damages brought by a man against the mother of a child on the basis that he had been misled about being the childâs biological father, the High Court held that false representations concerning an extra-marital sexual relationship or its consequences made by one spouse to another during the course of a marriage are not actionable in deceit. Nevertheless, the court found that a husband is entitled under the family law regime in Australia to seek an order for the repayment of any moneys wrongly paid for child support, or child maintenance, in reliance on such representations."


any help on this


The ONLY way LAWS will be made FAIRER is to PROVE existing LAWS DON'T WORK!!!
Leading to a CHANGE in the system...filtering to the CSA.
I believe the CSA is just an enforcement agency of the COURTS.
TO KILL A SNAKE YOU CHOP OF ITS HEAD.
Stop going after the tail...it will grow a new one back.
I am willing to HELP ALL FATHERS get their children BACKK.
JUST ASK ME

I believe ALL children should be with their Fathers.
The court system knows this and is running a business, after all.
ALL FATHERS should TAKE THE FAMILY LAW INTO THEIR OWN HANDS.
Meaning NOT acknowledging the COURT ORDERS and doing what's in THE CHILDREN'S BEST INTEREST.
I have FULL CARE OF MY 2 sons and did it like this.
Every time I go to family court I end up WALKING OUT.
You CANNOT BE CHARGED FOR KIDNAPPING YOUR OWN KIDS!!!
Grow some BALLS MEN and fight the BATTLE HEAD ON.
Please, STOP WINGING ABOUT MONEY...
The children ARE the asset.


if your self employed there exist a form with the ato where you can declare you will not lodge a return again for religious reasons or simply because you dont want to. these things have to exist as if they didnt it would be slavery there has to be a way out there also has to be a way to cease employers deducting,
if they actually read the income tax act doesnt allow this what they are following is a guide which is not lawful and even the phrase in the act that corresponds they are misreading, when you delve into the act.
i wont give up then i will free you all lol



for awhile i was winning with the csa however they've begun ignoring all "law" not just with me but their entire structure, for instance the non custodial parent now requires ( i believe it is ) 65% care of the child before the equality of 50/50 expense is warranted this is clearly a retarded standing made only to discriminate against fathers, ( forgive me if legislation has changed in the last few weeks,
however my reason for posting i believe is the answer, not so long ago i wrote to the csa asking for the definition of income along with some other relevant questions regarding their lawful standing, the response was along the lines of, you can expect transparent information though the letter ended with, we will not answer your questions??????????
upon further reading into the income tax act and thoughts turned towards the csa and their strange response, i have found that "ĂŻncome" has no specific definition however it is defined by proxy. income is a term related to business activity and the definition of business relates to profit, now if one is to follow the definition of business in the income tax act this states that it does not include an employee. it does include an individual which is synonymous with natural person thought it states does not include an employee. income is profit gained off an-others back. many may find this difficult to follow but to tax ones labor falls under the definition of slavery, it is unlawful and the government knows this, this is why we have a self assessment regarding income tax, we are infact filing stating that we made a profit. ok without going further into this, relate this to the csa, it makes sense, our social security system payed for by other taxes supports our children we then add to this as responsible parents, the child support act relates to adjusted taxable income, income/profit this makes sense, it is set up to tax parents whom actually have businesses and make profits, i do not, i exchange my energy. this is why the csa will not answer this question they know the are scamming us all along with the ato. i havent filed for three years because of this, i am working on filing without declaring profit i believe i know how, i just need some time to get on top of this. because of this the csa now have created an income for me despite any evidence of such and despite the legislation not allowing this. read the acts people.


Might have to read into CONSTITUTIONAL LAW because you are saying that the very law they hide behind is illegal.
How could this be???
Maybe it's a case of the law makers know and won't challenge it because its part of the federal revenue, meaning their OWN back pocket.
I think your onto something, but by the time WE do realise the LAW will be changed.
From what I'm aware the current LAWS are being reviewed.
Just like any NEW LAWS they will be written to STRENGTHEN current CSA POWERS.
Maybe, it's TIME to test CURRENT CSA LAWS against CONSTITIONAL LAW BEFORE THEY GET AWAY.
Anyone got a SPARE $4-5 million dollars???

The employees within the structure are human.. only they are paid to be not so, as they will tell you over the phone they cannot bend the "rules" (guidelines?) to take into account your particular circumstances, especially anything related to the stress and damage being done to your mental and physical health. As I am writing this I actually feel physically sick, and have done for some weeks trying to get a fair go from the CSA operatives, straight away that indicates something very wrong here.. if it happens to me then many more of my Aussie brothers and sisters are also experiencing the same things to a lesser or higher degree.
lets get at them folks.
Cheers

I have thought about what this will bring about, and how it may affect my life, but, someone has to do this and be willing to be crushed by the powers that be for confronting and exposing this for what it is, a totally UNFAIR and UNJUST system that needs to be reined in, I will put my hand up to be that focal point.(watch what happens to me!) Letâs get onto this now!. You will need to be patient as I need to organise separate, secure, contact formats and details for you all to be able to contact me and to send the information to me to assess and document so we can fix this.
One last thing.. anyone that will not contribute a fair amount to the upbringing of their children from the relationship, you need to have a damned good look at yourself, you brought them into this world and regardless of the relationship with the other parent YOUR children need you to contribute.


Right, lets get this show on the road. I can no longer sit and seethe in my helplessness. Lets turn this around folks. I need information! I need the details on the CSA as follows, time for detective work people, all info MUST be verified and documented, we are about to do what Wikileaks does.
I now believe the Aussie CSA is a front for something much bigger and sinister than we all currently know. The CSA IS a government body, all legal etc, but, they employ a COMPANY (consultancy?) to gather Child Support in other words, assess, gather enforce, bully, harass and destroy families and the individual, your âcase officerâ is not a judge or lawyer, they have no right to force this upon you, ask them next time you speak with them if they are a public servant or a contractor and see what the reaction is!. As you all know we are assessed on a formula, the formula ONLY looks at pre tax income (unjust, illogical and criminal in its stupidity) we are all allocated an allowance to live on within that formula, the figure is taken from the bureau of statistics that says it costs the AVERAGE Aussie this amount to live on for a year (Absolutely ridiculous and certainly doesn't apply to most of us!)so, we have two suppositions already with which are used to falsely assess our cases with that have no relevance to each and every single case currently being (mis)"managed" by the CSA.The power granted by legislation to the CSA is interpreted by the contractor to go for the maximum use of force to get the maximum "return" (which in turn gets them performance bonusâs) using a false and completely illegal methods against citizens of Australia, well, f@#k that for a joke!, no more!.. Letâs be reasonably smart about this.. I need facts about, the company, the account that the 4+ billion dollars currently held by the "organisation" whoever that is that gets invested in short term money markets and other high dividend, short term investments.. this is a HUGE money making scheme people and MUST be altered to be fair and just!. I need names, all the names in the CSA departments and the contractors that talk to you on the phone, everyone in any way linked to this evil little scheme.



We would love to have my husbands son live with us but his mother is so manipulative because she does not want to loose the money she is getting, how is this benefiting the children. CSA is so mixed up

(http://www.judgments.fedcourt.gov.au/judgments/Judgments/fca/single/2014/2014fca0035) re late payment fees may also be of benefit. Remember they are mostly defunct lawyers who work at CSA so they should know what you're on about. Plus for some commentary see http://www.mallesons.com/publications/marketAlerts/2014/Pages/Are-bank-fees-penalties-Paciocco-v-ANZ-.aspx


For everyone....
There is currently a Parliamnetary Inquiry into the Child Support Program, info available here http://www.aph.gov.au/Parliamentary_Business/Committees/House/Social_Policy_and_Legal_Affairs/Child_Support_Program
Have your say via the Online Questionnaire and hopefully you can provide some solutions they will listen to. Good they realise how crap the system is.

I had this last week, and I let fly and gave them a mouthful they wanted close to 3k a month, I'm now coughing up 34c in the dollar. As such they have me slated at just over 100k owing, of which mostly is penalties for late payments. I told them I'm fine paying child support but they can shove the late payments up their arses, and if they keep hounding me, I'll save 6mths cash somewhere, punch my boss and go on the dole. Before the bad parent brigade starts bleating, I gave my ex wife my home for the kids which she immediately sold for profit, and you wonder why people are bitter? Dene ring them back and start hounding them, do not stop until some kind of balance is made, they will only raid the bank if they have no way of obtaining cash, which happened to me when I was redundant, they froze my account and took ALL of my money, that I had to survive on. If you must take a second mortgage and pay them something to compromise, and as your wife is an accountant she should be able to come up with idea's to help preserve your net worth/assets. I was in the same boat as you, feeling like crap, bullied, harassed, pressured and demoralised. I simply chose to attack them back whilst at the same time thinking of ways to alleviate the financial horse-shit shower they are providing..and they did feed me the line of "do you know how much it costs to raise a child?" etc. So ring them back, and attack, keep ringing until the low level monkeys have no scripts they can read to you and pass you up their food chain to someone who knows what they are talking about, and can actually make decisions, good luck.


Cheers

Your issue is that the alleged $1000 owing is because your redundancy payment was reasonable and made your year total the ssame or more that what you would have got had you not be put off.
You need to contact CSA to say e.g. $20k of my salary last year was redundancy and should not be counted as "normal income". Your year end total will reduce and the debt will be ZERO as in fact you have paind too much due to the fact you continued to pay when you didn't have to. Clearly your ex partner is evil pursuing this.
This exact situation happened with me and I won the protest. You just have to find someone at CSA who cares. Most likely a male. I kid you not..... find the right person and the debt will disappear. Greg

I did not gain employment until 17 Feb this year, so in that time from early September until the time I started working I was paying $304 per fortnight. In early July this year my present wife and I had a baby, and registered with myGov, and so I linked my child support account with this. At this time I learnt that I had all these emails which I had not been keeping up to date with. In Dec 2013 my daughter turned 13, so I was expected to pay extra from that point on. That information was included in one of the emails that I did not look at. In May 2014 the CSA sent me an email saying that unless I re-estimated my income before 30 June 2014, my assessment would be calculated on my previous tax assessment. That email was also unread by myself. I started work in Feb this year. Even when I started work I didnât phone child support to tell them of my new estimation, I figured it would change when I did my tax return, so I kept on paying same amount per fortnight.
I rang CSA in July, a fortnight after my son was born, and I told them of my new estimation for this financial year. Recently, I received a phone call from CSA saying that my ex-wife has asked CSA to now take up collection and that Iâm nearly $1000 in arrears. Can anything be done to take into account the money I paid while I was unemployed, or is it simply a case of me being ignorant and just copping it on the chin?